Is it ever okay to be a little kinky during first-time sex, or will I scare women away?
- Vibhor Nagpal, Surat
Depends on how you define a 'little kinky.' Because, while you don't want to freak her out, you don't want to bore her either. Some gentle groping followed by missionary position is standard. A woman appreciates a man who's bold enough to yank up her skirt, trace her spine with his tongue and locate her G-spot. If that's a 'little kinky,' then go for it. As for things like spanking and bondage, save that stuff for your six month anniversary.
Cat-walk
Why does she parade around nearly naked if she doesn't want to start something up?
- Akshit Varma, Pune
Because teasing you is fun. Sometimes when I slip on some sexy lace, it seems like a waste to immediately cover it up with work clothes. My man may catch a glimpse, but sorry, I'm heading to work. What I'm doing is stoking his appetite-and reminding him that the woman he has at home is just as hot as the babes he sees out there.
Bedroom secrets
Is there any way to tell if I'm a good lover in bed?
- Ajit Panda , Kanpur
Here are two signs that you really are a stud: 1. She seems completely out of it afterwards. When you hit all the right spots in all the right ways, it tends to short-circuit a girl's brain and body and it shows in her voice and on her face. 2. When she finally does come to her senses, she cuddles up to you. Authentic orgasms make us feel clingier than a koala bear.
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